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  1. photo of SirAnthonyDural, Male 4

    SirAnthonyDural

    48, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sydney - Hills, NSW

    Mmmm a job interview.?? So as you Buttering Me Up and trying to Kiss my Ass. I'll have coffee white with 2 Your qualifications better be good for a call back.

    Last online: 23 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  2. photo of PatientlyWaiting2, Male 6

    PatientlyWaiting2

    50, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Enjoying life, just missing my soulmate.....

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  3. photo of Sc0rpi0, Male 3

    Sc0rpi0

    49, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sunshine Coast, QLD

    I just haven't met you yet........

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  4. photo of SouthernSon, Male

    SouthernSon

    49, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Adelaide - Western & Beachside Suburbs, SA

    Left of Centre

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  5. photo of Wilcoeb, Male 8

    Wilcoeb

    47, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Perth City, WA

    Don't read any further........... really look away now! Why are you still here? Ok, just a quick look..... come in.........

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  6. photo of RealSimple, Male

    RealSimple

    54, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    I like to keep it simple and I like to keep it real .. guess that makes me real simple :-o

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  7. photo of OuEtesVous8, Male 4

    OuEtesVous8

    55, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Adelaide - South & South Eastern Suburbs, SA

    Beauty is more than skin deep, so if you want a caring, loving, passionate and sensitive guy then I might be right for you!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  8. photo of surfsideguy, Male 6

    surfsideguy

    51, Male, 6'3/190 cm, Sydney - Northern Beaches, NSW

    Joie De Vivre (joy of life ) describes my atittude to life .Essentially maintaining a balance and philisophical attitude :)

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  9. photo of Br4nd0, Male 4

    Br4nd0

    50, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Brisbane - Southside, QLD

    seek, view, select, entice, engage, connect and commit

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  10. photo of WakeSetter1, Male 3

    WakeSetter1

    NEW

    53, Male, over 6'3/190 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    WOW A REAL TOUCH OF A COUNTRY GUY LOOKING FOR A COUNTRY ....CITY GIRL AN LOOKING FOR A BREATH OF FRESH AIR .....WHERE ARE U .....I AM WAITING .......?????

    Chat Add to favourites
  11. photo of Thedudeabides, Male 3

    Thedudeabides

    49, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Mornington Peninsula, VIC

    Honest, affectionate and freakin' funny!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  12. photo of daz007, Male 3

    daz007

    52, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Parramatta, NSW

    Hi, tall dark and funny... quite bright for a bloke too...

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  13. photo of smile117, Male 6

    smile117

    48, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Sydney - Northern Beaches, NSW

    All I want for the New Year is......

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  14. photo of Niceandhappy, Male 2

    Niceandhappy

    NEW

    54, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Looking for an intelligent, honest and loving man then I could be right for you. I love sailing, cycling and travel as well as quiet times at home.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  15. photo of Therightone4ya, Male 2

    Therightone4ya

    49, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Perth - Southern Suburbs, WA

    Looking for the lady of my dreams . And I beleave dreams come true.

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  16. photo of Something50, Male 4

    Something50

    55, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

    Browsing for a girlfriend!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  17. photo of Easyrider1, Male 13

    Easyrider1

    52, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Ipswich & West Moreton, QLD

    Did yer hear about the Irish magician who couldn't pull a rabbit out of a hat,so he pulled a HARE out of his arse ! Hi I'm Jack,and I love great crack! Pick Me!

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  18. photo of Travology49, Male 6

    Travology49

    54, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Perth - Southern Suburbs, WA

    Looking to meet someone special with a zest for life.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  19. photo of IWontMakeYouFat, Male 4

    IWontMakeYouFat

    50, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW

    High energy male seeks same in a woman.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  20. photo of Tick66, Male 5

    Tick66

    48, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney - Eastern Suburbs, NSW

    Got to give this a go

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  21. photo of BlackrockSteve, Male 15

    BlackrockSteve

    51, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Sutherland, NSW

    Why on Earth would you want "The Bachelor " ...??... When you can have................(drum roll please....).......... "The Divorcee"...!!!!!...

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  22. photo of TheLoneRanger007, Male 2

    TheLoneRanger007

    49, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Geelong & Surrounds, VIC

    It's a small world, but I wouldn't want to paint it !!!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  23. photo of fiftyshadesofgrey, Male 14

    fiftyshadesofgrey

    47, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    New boy looking to meet new girl who has been looking for friendship, relationship and love in all the wrong places.

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  24. photo of sjfbuilder, Male 3

    sjfbuilder

    49, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    Single male

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  25. photo of DuffMan, Male 7

    DuffMan

    47, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Melbourne - Western Suburbs, VIC

    Friends say I'd be a great catch for someone who's exhausted all other options. The same friends also said RSVP WTF?

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  26. photo of Ultima69, Male 3

    Ultima69

    47, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Central Coast & Surrounds, NSW

    Just joined. Again. Not interested in any games or drama. Looking for my best friend and lover.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  27. photo of cinderford, Male 6

    cinderford

    51, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Perth City, WA

    outdoorsy happy go lucky

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  28. photo of Geotech68, Male 5

    Geotech68

    46, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Redlands City, QLD

    I've been described as extremely affectionate & loyal with a positive attitude,a great sense of humour & value honesty & integrity.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  29. photo of youcannotbeserious, Male 3

    youcannotbeserious

    55, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Melbourne - Eastern Suburbs, VIC

    " Nurse, I'm begging you, can I PLEASE have another Xanax? "

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  30. photo of serfguru, Male 5

    serfguru

    48, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Honest, Down to Earth, Ambitious, True Romantic, and Wicked Sense of Humor

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  31. photo of BigBlueSkyGuy, Male 4

    BigBlueSkyGuy

    53, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney - Northern Beaches, NSW

    Who will share this adventure with me?

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  32. photo of OneLastDance10, Male 3

    OneLastDance10

    NEW

    55, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Macedon Ranges, VIC

    Because We All Deserve a Happy Ending

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  33. photo of SimplePlan, Male 4

    SimplePlan

    48, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

    I'm Batman

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  34. photo of chrisdutch, Male 6

    chrisdutch

    49, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Perth - Southern Suburbs, WA

    A real man who shows his emotions and feelings. Optimist and looking for the connection. Brains and Brawn. Tough yet tender.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  35. photo of Thechad1, Male 4

    Thechad1

    48, Male, over 6'3/190 cm, Brisbane - Southside, QLD

    I'm allergic to drama - I break out in a run

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  36. photo of makinghay, Male

    makinghay

    46, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    Life, curiosity, empathy, adventure, challenge. Just a few things that are important to me.

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  37. photo of ntegr8ty, Male

    ntegr8ty

    NEW

    49, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Brisbane City & Northern Suburbs, QLD

    Calm honest cheeky and Passionate about life and love.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  38. photo of StayClassy6, Male

    StayClassy6

    46, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

    The older you get the clearer life becomes.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  39. photo of Eyeswideopen61, Male

    Eyeswideopen61

    NEW

    53, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Adelaide City, SA

    Outgoing, active, interested in a wide variety of subjects. I love travel and am looking towards more, although I would prefer some company. Keen to enjoy life!

    Last online: 23 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  40. photo of PassionateTravelMan, Male

    PassionateTravelMan

    53, Male, over 6'3/190 cm, Brisbane City & Northern Suburbs, QLD

    Seize The Day - Be Adventureous, Active and Enjoy Life.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  41. photo of SeanJohn2012, Male

    SeanJohn2012

    54, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Sydney - Eastern Suburbs, NSW

    Successful Artistic Director, Actor & Dad - Head of College. Courageous, Passionate about the arts and funding for arts.

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  42. photo of outtherelookin6, Male

    outtherelookin6

    55, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Brisbane - Southside, QLD

    I'm still working on my profile. Nudge me to update it by sending a kiss message

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  43. photo of TrulyDeeply, Male

    TrulyDeeply

    49, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Perth - Northern Suburbs, WA

    Roguishly stylish, tall, unconventional . . . the thinking woman's man and still young at heart.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  44. photo of LetMeSpoilU, Male 4

    LetMeSpoilU

    48, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sydney - Northern Beaches, NSW

    Champagne? or Champagne?

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  45. photo of eternaloptomist, Male

    eternaloptomist

    55, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Sydney - Northern Beaches, NSW

    I've always been one for carpe diem and recent events have led me to Vietnam. Curiosity is a great cure for boredom -looking for someone to share the adventure.

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  46. photo of Pc15, Male 3

    Pc15

    47, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    New

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  47. photo of genuie27, Male

    genuie27

    50, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Sunshine Coast, QLD

    Hi :) I have to say finding someone get harder , down to earth, fun and warm person , charming ,comforting ,relax looking for a real nice women with good life

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  48. photo of RichardP, Male

    RichardP

    54, Male, 5'8/172 cm, Sydney - Western Suburbs, NSW

    Fun Loving, looking for new and exciting adventures, places to go and see, with new things to do with a soul partner hand in hand.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  49. photo of Davidjp5, Male

    Davidjp5

    55, Male, 5'8/172 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Single, Healthy, Normal, Romantic, Musical Composer, Ex Company HR Director and Psych running own consultancy.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  50. photo of ChrisEnglish, Male

    ChrisEnglish

    53, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Hobart City & Southern Region, TAS

    Kind, gentle, honest, open, good-natured, amusing, articulate, recently returned to Hobart. Everything's negotiable but female equivalent would be perfect.

    Chat Add to favourites
  51. photo of Cheekyboy101, Male

    Cheekyboy101

    48, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Adelaide - Eastern Suburbs, SA

    Exciting, Passionate & Fun Loving.

    Last online: 23 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  52. photo of YourWelcome, Male

    YourWelcome

    55, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Melbourne - South Eastern Suburbs, VIC

    It Takes 2 To Tango ! and i`m tired of dancing alone....

    Chat Add to favourites
  53. photo of Howhardcoulditbe, Male

    Howhardcoulditbe

    52, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne - Bayside, VIC

    What the hell am I doing here! Well I'm not too into bars and think most of life's adventures are more enjoyable shared!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  54. photo of AdGloriam, Male

    AdGloriam

    NEW

    48, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

    I have an accent...southern Italian.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  55. photo of cidsback58, Male

    cidsback58

    55, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Seeking the simple things in life, someone to share the good and bad with... to plan things, then look forward in doing them together.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  56. photo of SeaChange67, Male 9

    SeaChange67

    47, Male, over 6'3/190 cm, Sutherland, NSW

    Genuine, down to earth guy seeks a partner in crime ;p

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  57. photo of GaryG2511, Male 3

    GaryG2511

    47, Male, 5'7/170 cm, Brisbane City & Northern Suburbs, QLD

    life is not a dress rehearsal we should live each day to it's fullest

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  58. photo of Talktome7, Male

    Talktome7

    48, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Tuggeranong, ACT

    Looking for that someone to just be themselves; are you out there?

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  59. photo of Ray67, Male 2

    Ray67

    55, Male, 5'6/167 cm, Gladstone / Rockhampton / Capricornia, QLD

    Out there looking for the one

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  60. photo of Bris1, Male

    Bris1

    51, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Brisbane City & Northern Suburbs, QLD

    Together but Separate.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  61. photo of MP63, Male

    MP63

    51, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Toowoomba & Surrounds, QLD

    Hi eligible great guy looking for eligible lady. I describe myself as intelligent, motivated, affectionate with a great since of humour.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  62. photo of Seekingmagic, Male

    Seekingmagic

    46, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Redcliffe / Bribie / Caboolture, QLD

    Still believe in magic?

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  63. photo of jackbeans, Male

    jackbeans

    46, Male, 5'8/172 cm, Brisbane - Inner South, QLD

    I am smart, loyal, loving & selfless. If you want to feel loved, special & safe then I am your guy!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  64. photo of Raymondo1, Male

    Raymondo1

    NEW

    51, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    I am an easy going fun loving person who just wants to enjoy life and what it has to offer, so now it's time to start living again.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  65. photo of martymanA, Male

    martymanA

    46, Male, 5'6/167 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    I am who I am

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  66. photo of Marinello, Male

    Marinello

    50, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Brisbane City & Northern Suburbs, QLD

    Nice guys finish first.....

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  67. photo of watto450, Male

    watto450

    55, Male, over 6'3/190 cm, Perth - Northern Suburbs, WA

    If you've been looking in all the wrong places.. STOP...!! this is the right place..

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  68. photo of souldreamer, Male

    souldreamer

    52, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sunshine Coast, QLD

    Just a guy a dad and enjoying the journey

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  69. photo of catch2013, Male

    catch2013

    49, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW

    " A Genuine Guy Looking For A Genuine Girl"!!!

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  70. photo of PortionsAndWishes, Male

    PortionsAndWishes

    NEW

    47, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Liverpool / Fairfield, NSW

    Making it count

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  71. photo of Entity, Male

    Entity

    NEW

    48, Male, 6'3/190 cm, Adelaide City, SA

    Fit, Athletic & enjoys one on one conversations.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  72. photo of MalePackage, Male

    MalePackage

    55, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Adelaide - Eastern Suburbs, SA

    What if we could put our lives on hold and meet anywhere in the world - I would meet you - Would you meet me?

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  73. photo of MrPositive4U, Male

    MrPositive4U

    NEW

    50, Male, 5'8/172 cm, Sydney - Northern Suburbs, NSW

    Laughter is a great medicine, I take it daily!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  74. photo of Exergetic, Male

    Exergetic

    52, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    Looking for 'Adventure before dementia'!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  75. photo of TheLightCatcher, Male

    TheLightCatcher

    55, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sutherland, NSW

    - and a catcher in the wry :)

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  76. photo of adventouras1, Male

    adventouras1

    50, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Sunshine Coast, QLD

    You complete me!

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  77. photo of gudlukngsoh, Male

    gudlukngsoh

    54, Male, 5'7/170 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    whats a nice guy like me to do to meet a lovely girl like you

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  78. photo of Lionheart959, Male

    Lionheart959

    51, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Sydney - Eastern Suburbs, NSW

    .So, I need to get your attention in just a few short lines.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  79. photo of kev7, Male

    kev7

    52, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Perth - Western Suburbs, WA

    A simple soul who enjoys fun and pleasure.

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  80. photo of knowwhatiwant1, Male

    knowwhatiwant1

    49, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Melbourne - Bayside, VIC

    When was the last great conversation you had?

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  81. photo of AndyRig, Male

    AndyRig

    NEW

    48, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    Worldly workaholic ready to slow down.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  82. photo of PRINCECHARMINGLOL, Male

    PRINCECHARMINGLOL

    46, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    So if I can run million dollar companies writing an add for myself should be a snap right? Wrong, so very wrong.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  83. photo of Dutchie7, Male

    Dutchie7

    53, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Sydney - Eastern Suburbs, NSW

    Live life to the fullest..........It would be wonderful to share my positive outlook on life with someone

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  84. photo of talldarkhandsome41, Male

    talldarkhandsome41

    46, Male, 6'3/190 cm, Sydney - Lower North Shore, NSW

    Adventurous, fun loving guy.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  85. photo of Rockit63, Male

    Rockit63

    50, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

    The Key to ur Heart

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  86. photo of ThierryJacques, Male

    ThierryJacques

    NEW

    49, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Townsville & Surrounds, QLD

    SoulMan looking SoulSista.

    Chat Add to favourites
  87. photo of MRT14, Male

    MRT14

    47, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    The next journey begins. Care to join me?

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  88. photo of sillynameswehave, Male

    sillynameswehave

    48, Male, 5'8/172 cm, Sydney - Hills, NSW

    OUCH!!!!!!!!!! Thats not funny anymore. Stop scrolling down the page, I keep hitting my head on the top blue line. LOL

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  89. photo of Spurs01, Male

    Spurs01

    48, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Melbourne - Western Suburbs, VIC

    Hi there. Here to meet people from all walks of life. Everybody has a story. I enjoy listening and sharing time with people. Life is short so let's enjoy it.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  90. photo of PassionateLad54, Male

    PassionateLad54

    NEW

    54, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Melbourne - Eastern Suburbs, VIC

    Looking For My Other Half!!!

    Last online: 24 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  91. photo of BikerBob, Male

    BikerBob

    54, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Northern Rivers, NSW

    Living to Ride

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  92. photo of shyboyat1st, Male

    shyboyat1st

    48, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne City, VIC

    "Life is an ocean, love is a boat, In troubled waters, it keeps us afloat!"

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  93. photo of GentlemanJohn, Male

    GentlemanJohn

    47, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Sydney - Northern Suburbs, NSW

    Life happens while your busy making other plans

    Last online: 25 Oct '14 Add to favourites
  94. photo of Ozdazzler, Male

    Ozdazzler

    48, Male, 6'2/188 cm, Perth - Northern Suburbs, WA

    A father (foremost), a professional, a joker, and an adventurer!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  95. photo of Jai65, Male

    Jai65

    50, Male, 5'10/177 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    Not all scientists are nerdy!

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  96. photo of Hoseandladder, Male

    Hoseandladder

    46, Male, 6'1/185 cm, Sydney City, NSW

    You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need.

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  97. photo of cj2707, Male

    cj2707

    46, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Melbourne - Eastern Suburbs, VIC

    Only looking for one to love

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  98. photo of AndrewBlueEyes, Male

    AndrewBlueEyes

    46, Male, 5'11/180 cm, Tuggeranong, ACT

    "Genuine, Gentle Souled Guy" who loves adventure, looking for real love, intimacy, affection and a true mate for life. No MSG or harmful additives here... :-)

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  99. photo of feathers27, Male

    feathers27

    49, Male, 6'0/183 cm, Gold Coast, QLD

    Hard working Fun love the beach and the country easy going friendly enjoy Gardening creative in many ways enjoy renovating building things having fun ....

    Last online: Today Add to favourites
  100. photo of SJ1968, Male

    SJ1968

    46, Male, 5'9/175 cm, Newcastle & Surrounds, NSW

    Looking for My Best Friend

    Chat Add to favourites

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